As the saying goes, you won’t realize that the right pairs of shoes that actually suits your feet was all along in your shoe cabinet.
How do you know it’s the right fit?
Its times when others look or seem less attractive to you, when her actions or words may annoy others but seems cute to you, when she grabs both of your hands tightly in the movie to keep warm.
The exact moment when she became yours.
-There are tons of inside jokes between us, many “gossip” topics and for some reason, it doesn’t get boring in fact, it never stops. They get funnier each day and its like morphing into newer ones.
-When your day starts and ends with her, not forcefully, but naturally. Not physically, not even by texting or talking on the phone, but simply the fact that you think of her when you go to bed and when you wake up. Your feelings for her don’t even give you the desire to look at anyone else but, Her.
-When her silly faces are more attractive to you than any other supermodel’s professional pictures.
-When you feel that she’s close to you even when she’s not next to you in person.
-When she can just turn you on by saying something non-sexual that makes you realize why you like her so much.
-When the thought of her calms you. When you lose faith in humanity, she is the safety. You think of her and remind yourself that people like her still exist.
-When the good times that you share with your boys are so much fun that you want her to be part of it too and you worry how you’re gonna balance and juggle that.
The best part is that there is no need for balance because if she’s truly yours, she should know she will never replace your boys. Of course, if your boys are your true friends, they will support your relationship.
-Whenever she sings or she dances, no matter how poor it may be, your heart just died for that couple of seconds.
-When you realize that you like her for her imperfections, and that other girls’ imperfections, are just… well, that is why you’re not with them and you’re with her. Her imperfections are sexy, interesting, captivating and entertaining.
-When you can courageously open up your insecurities and vulnerabilities to her, and she doesn’t make fun of you.
-When someone becomes yours, there are no problems or arguments; there are only discussions. There is no need to explain the love, you just feel it. When someone becomes yours, their worries, sadness and happiness all become yours.
-When someone is yours, the joy that comes with sharing the positive results of life becomes even more enigmatic.
-When someone becomes yours, there is no “you” & “I”. It’s, US. We present ourselves to the world together. Dynamics change, and our love for each other grows. We don’t need to say anything; we understand. We don’t need to understand anything; we just feel it.
-When someone is yours, you are that someone’s; you can never feel lonely ever again.
If you filter down to the basic human emotions of care and love, unpolluted by the modern thought process and societal expectations, feeling close to someone is the most rewarding sense in the world. It gives meaning to your life.
Open your heart; open your mind. Embrace each other and let the world unfold in front of you.